Speak. Be. Echo.

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Speak. Be. Echo.

Hey there, friend. Let me pull up a chair and talk to you about something that’s been changing my life from the inside out.

It’s not just about communication. It's not just about vocabulary. It’s deeper. Realer. It's what I now call my speaking identity.

Yes, those words right there—"Speaking Identity"—are what I want to explore with you today. How we speak, how we express ourselves, how we carry our thoughts into the world... it shapes not just how the world sees us, but how we begin to see ourselves.

And let me tell you this upfront: your voice—how you use it, how you shape it, how you own it—is your echo in the world. That’s why I’ve titled this blog Speak. Be. Echo.

Because when you learn to speak, you begin to be, and once you’re truly being—you echo beyond rooms, meetings, and moments.

How It All Started for Me

I was always more of a thinker than a talker. I’d write down my thoughts like a quiet observer of the world, documenting it all in silence. But as I grew—personally, professionally, and spiritually—I realized that writing was only one part of who I was. I had something to say aloud, too.

And not just say it… say it well. Say it with presence. Say it with me inside every word.

That’s when I stumbled upon the concept of Speaking Identity.

Also Read: English, Say It Right, Say It Loud—A practical approach to unlocking clarity and joy every single day.

And no, I didn’t read about it in some textbook or hear about it in a seminar. It just dawned on me. After one of those random team meetings/sessions where I found myself talking with unexpected clarity, confidence, and connection—I heard myself speak and thought:

“Wait… this is who I really am when I’m not overthinking.”

From that moment, I decided: I'm going to develop this. I’m going to build my Speaking Identity like it's a living, breathing version of me that walks into rooms, holds space, and leaves something behind.

What is Speaking Identity, Really?

Let me break it down in the most human way I can. Speaking Identity and English

Your Speaking Identity is the unique fingerprint of your communication. It’s not just about tone or accent or vocabulary—it’s your presence in speech.

It's the way your thoughts travel from your brain to your tongue, with your emotions, your energy, and your values attached to them.

It’s:

• How you hold yourself while speaking

• How you make others feel when you talk

• How confident you are to pause, express, and be misunderstood without fear

• How you own silence as much as words

To put it simply: It’s how you speak.

Why Is It So Important?

Because in this world—no matter who you are—your voice is your power.

Think about it. The most impactful leaders, the most memorable friends, the most magnetic people—they don’t just know what to say. They know how to be while saying it.

A developed speaking identity:

• Builds authentic confidence

• Helps you connect across generations, cultures, and crowds

• Makes people trust you, follow you, believe you

• Clears mental fog—because you begin to organize your mind through speech

• And most of all… it helps you feel like you belong in the room

My Daily Practice: How I Build My Speaking Identity

Let’s get personal here.

This isn’t a once-a-week practice for me. It’s not something I pull out only during meetings or presentations. I practice my speaking identity in real, everyday situations. Let me walk you through some of them:

1. Speaking Among Friends

This is my favorite ground to practice on. Casual conversations with people I trust—it’s where my mind is free and my thoughts flow.

But instead of being passive in these conversations, I became intentional.

I started:

• Expressing ideas more clearly

• Replacing filler words like “umm” and “like” with pauses

• Reflecting while speaking

• Asking open-ended questions that open doors for deeper dialogue

I noticed how I could shift the vibe of the whole group just by being present with my words. Suddenly, I wasn’t just someone in the circle—I was anchoring it.

2. At Work with My Team

Now this one… this is where the real growth happens. I work with a talented team, and I’ve realized that communication is what either builds or breaks team energy.

I consciously started:

• Being the one to start discussions

• Clarifying problems and solutions with simplicity

• Using storytelling in team huddles

• Voicing appreciation or concern with calmness and clarity

You wouldn’t believe how powerful it is when people see you as someone who speaks clearly—not loudly, but meaningfully. It lifts your professional identity. It builds respect.

Also Read: Thrive All Around the World—A bold take on what it truly means to thrive, speak, and connect universally.

This practice has made me not just a team member but a reliable voice within my organization.

3. In Groups and Public Spaces

Whenever there’s a moment—whether it’s a social gathering, a workshop, or even a circle of strangers—I challenge myself:

“Can I make my presence known by just one powerful sentence?”

And I try. I don’t push to dominate the room, but I do try to leave a subtle echo.

Maybe it’s a well-thought-out comment. Maybe it’s the courage to ask a meaningful question. Maybe it’s speaking up when silence seems easier.

And every time I do, my Speaking Identity grows stronger. It’s like feeding it with courage, breath by breath.

What I’ve Learned Along the Way

1. Speaking Identity is not a show—it’s a reflection. When you align your thoughts, emotions, and words, you speak your truth. That truth resonates.

2. You don't have to sound smart—you have to sound like you. Over time, I’ve stopped using complex words just to impress. Simplicity is powerful. Stillness between words is magnetic.

3. Silence is part of communication. Don’t rush. Don’t race. Let your words breathe. In fact, silence can sometimes be your most articulate statement.

4. Feedback is gold. I often ask close friends or coworkers how I sounded. Was I clear? Was I too fast? Did I repeat myself? Feedback without ego is the fast lane to growth.

5. There is no "final" version of your Speaking Identity. It evolves. You evolve. Let it. That’s the beauty of being alive and human.

Want to Start Developing Yours? Here’s My Advice

Let’s get practical. If you’re reading this and thinking, “I want to develop my Speaking Identity too,” here’s where to begin:

A. Observe Yourself Daily

• How do you speak when relaxed vs. when under pressure?

• What words do you repeat too often?

• Do you dominate, or do you hesitate?

B. Shadow People You Admire

Pick someone whose speaking style inspires you (maybe a leader, a TED speaker, a friend). Don’t copy them—but observe how they hold space.

C. Practice With Intention

Every day gives you opportunities—calls, meetings, dinner chats, elevator rides. Use them. Try different tones. Try new ways to say the same thing.

 Also Read: The Power of Honesty—Honesty in speech creates presence, connection, and authenticity—start there.

D. Record Yourself

Yes, it’s awkward at first. But hearing yourself speak is like looking into a mirror for your voice. You’ll discover what to refine.

E. Speak with Soul

Always remember—when you speak, you’re not performing. You’re revealing. So don’t hide behind robotic scripts. Speak with heart. Speak with you.

The Final Echo

If you’ve read this far, thank you. That means you’re not just curious—you’re committed.

The truth is, you already have a voice. But your Speaking Identity? That’s the masterpiece you build with intention.

It’s the version of your voice that:

• Commands a room without shouting

• Expresses feelings without fumbling

• Influences without manipulation

• Resonates even after you’ve left the room

Let this be the start of something powerful for you.

Let your speaking be your becoming. Let your becoming be your echo. Let your echo be remembered.

And when in doubt, remember the three words:

Speak. Be. Echo.

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With you in this,

RV

www.bevociferous.com

“Speak Out Loud. Be Heard Forever.”