When I met myself
#decisions | You're the one who makes up your story.
The word "world" is "I." There are 7 billion people on Earth, and every day we try and struggle to find new feelings and experiences, but 99.99% of the time, every day ends up the same. We wake up, eat, go to work, do something fun, end the day, go to bed, and do it all over again. Only 0.01% of people add something new or learn something new every day.
This world is a prison with invisible chains, and we have to work hard to stay alive in it. Only a small number of people are able to succeed in this endeavor, while the rest fail every day. The next time you wake up, which is tomorrow, add a new task or do something new. It should be something important, so don't put it off, because if you're reading this post and it sounds like you, it's high time. You need to get out of your personal bubble as soon as possible.
If you don't do what's important in your life, you're only going to get worse over time. We all have a story in our heads about ourselves, other people, the world, what we know and what we don't know, and so on. This is like a movie, and you're a character in it. You didn't choose the other characters around you; someone else did. You didn't choose who would play your mother and father, where you would go to school, what kind of kids would be your friends, or who would be your teachers and how they would treat you. We can't choose any of the above because they all happen on their own.
The catch is that we get an environment, and then we are built based on that environment or structure. Whether we make our society or it makes us. The answer is that society shapes us first, and then we shape it. We all think that we have built our lives, but the truth is that it has been built for us based on our family history, our friend circle, and our relationships, and we are prisoners in it. How can we get out of this prison? This is an imaginary prison or jail, and the day you realize it's all an illusion, you'll find the "key" to get out and be able to change your life.
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Right now, you're just a helpless character in the movie of your life who doesn't know what to do and blames everyone else. When you realize that this story/movie is just a "lie" and that it's all in your head, just remember that what happened in the past might not happen in the future. You will only understand and know this if you use the most important thing about being a human. And what is this skill? That is, you are not a "character" in the movie of your life; you are the "creator," and you can change the story whenever you want (in a blink).
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So, make a change! This is the biggest superpower we all have as humans and the only one we have. Write it down, make it, just do it, use all your gut and go for it. No matter what the people around you or the rest of the world think of your story, they may have their own stories about you, but you have a different story that only you know, and that's all that matters! People look at you from different angles, not because they are like you, but because they are like them. For example, if someone is a failure, they may see you as a failure and talk to you in the same way. On the other hand, if you meet a successful person, he will look at the good things about you and how different and unique you are. But the most important thing is what you think of yourself. It doesn't matter what other people say.
Change your story if you want to change your world. As soon as you change your story, your actions and habits will also change. Not important how old you are, what you do, or how old your story is. Close your eyes and say "Enough!" Take action and make a choice, and your life will go in a different direction as soon as you do. You are just "ONE" choice away from having a whole new life.
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Our lives are made up of the choices we make, whether we realize it or not. A decision to choose someone or to leave someone, a decision to do something or to not do something. But we're all afraid to make decisions and settle for the ones that other people or life make for us. That's when we become "characters" in our own lives (the movie of our lives). So, if you don't want to change your stories by making your own choices based on how you feel, you will always be a "character" like 99.99% of the people in the world.
But if you make a "decision" and become a "Creator," then there's nothing you can't do in this world!
Most successful people took small steps to get where they are now. They learned something new every day, made changes when they were needed, and always "decided" to do what was most important. This is the secret to their success. Ask "myself" this question to find yours.